Self Love

I wasn’t expecting to receive any emails from this blog within the first 24 hours of my first blog posts. I was really surprised to find two wonderful emails from two visitors but their identity would obviously be hidden from this blog to respect their privacy.

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From the emails received, I was able to detect a similar problem between them. With their permission, I decided to create this post to discuss this challenge with you. Its good to always share a story or advise because you don’t know how many people may need it.

Self Love

Define Yourself Always, Be Confident. A person should be two things; who and what she wants to be. Be what you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter, don’t mind. Be who you want to be, don’t let people bring you down. Just put yourself out there and hope for the best. Don’t wait for approval in being who you are, don’t take anything from anyone and always stand up for yourself. Carry yourself like a queen and you will attract a king.

Believe In Yourself, believe in your dreams and your potentials. Do not believe in the haters because they believe in nothing. That’s why they are haters. Believe in all you are and acknowledge there’s something inside you that is greater than any obstacles because believing in your abilities affects your motivation, your choices, your toughness, and your determination. If you don’t believe in yourself, then nobody will.

Do Not Question Your Life. Don’t ask yourself too many questions about life because once you do, you’re going to end up going insane looking for the right answer. Most questions in life don’t have answers. Don’t ask why people keep hurting you, ask yourself why you allow that to happen. Concern yourself with not what is right or wrong but what is important. Somebody died last night, but you didn’t. Somebody didn’t wake up this morning, but you did. You’re not lucky, you’re blessed.

Do Not Compare Yourself To Anyone. Don’t compare yourself to others, compare yourself to who you were yesterday. Don’t ever compare yourself to anything in this world because if you do, you’re insulting yourself. Don’t rush the process. Allow yourself to grow at your own pace. Stop comparing your life to what other people are doing. The worst thing you can do to yourself is judge yourself through the eyes of others.

Flee From Jealousy And Envy. Don’t envy anyone because everyone has something no one has. Develop that one thing about yourself and make it outstanding. Don’t waste your time on jealousy because sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes you’re behind. The race is long and at the end, its only with yourself. Accept what is. Let go of what was. And have faith in what will be. Your Speed doesn’t matter, Forward is Forward. Life is very short, so forgive quickly, believe slowly, love truly, laugh loudly and never avoid anything that makes you smile.

Don’t lose yourself trying to hold onto someone who doesn’t care about losing you. Don’t lose yourself, its good to follow leaders but its even better to become one. Don’t lose yourself in an attempt to recover money, people or your past because those things never last. If you were happy before you met someone, you can be happy after they’re gone. Putting yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s necessary. Be there for others but never leave yourself behind because there are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind.

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Motivate Yourself. Everyday you need to look yourself in the eye and ask yourself if this is what you should be doing with your life. Every morning, take a good look at yourself in the mirror and say I am going to have a great day. Every single day, you should wake up and commit yourself to becoming a better person. Remember, it’s easy to get started, but the real fight is to keep going even on the days you don’t feel like it. It’s these days that you want to quit that will make you successful.

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Everyone one of us is born with unlimited potential, we have the ability and intelligence to make the impossible possible. Remember, the only person that can hold you back in life is yourself, you just cant dream it, you must believe that you have the power to achieve it. Getting ahead in a difficult profession requires avid faith in yourself. That is why some people with mediocre talent, but with great inner drive, go much further than people with vastly superior talent. Forgive those who insult you, attack you or take you for granted. But more than that, forgive yourself for allowing them to hurt you. Surround yourself with people who have dreams, desire and ambition. They will help you realize your own. Being happy doesn’t mean you’re perfect. It just means you’ve decided to look beyond the imperfections. A day without laughter is a day wasted !!!!
Never be ashamed of your hustle. Nobody will feed you if you go broke!! One day you will tell your story of how you’re overcome what you’re going through now, and it will become part of someone else’s survival guide.

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There is alot to say or write but for now;

You are free, you are powerful, you are good, you are love, you have value, you have a purpose. All is well.

©Anna.

If You Ever Want To Talk With Me, To Share Your Problems And Challenges. Use This Link. I’m Always Ready To Listen And Help You.

39 comments

  1. Lowkey · 4 Days Ago

    I love this. Thank you so much. 💛💛💛 Brigther days are coming.

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  2. Very nice post on self love.

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  3. parneetsachdev · June 19

    This post is just brilliant. very apt.

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    • anitaannabel · June 19

      Thank you very much🤗❤
      What do you think of a collab?

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      • parneetsachdev · June 19

        I’d love to Anita. What topics would interest you? My mail id is
        parneetsachdev@yahoo.com

        meanwhile let me follow our wonderful blog😊

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      • anitaannabel · June 19

        That’s really nice..
        I would actually love our collab to be on my other blog…Anna’s Styles.
        Gotta email you first…

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      • parneetsachdev · June 19

        sure. will look forward. However please expect a reply either tomorrow or after one week. During working days life does get hectic😊😊

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      • anitaannabel · June 19

        I understand…
        I have an exam as well so I am comfortable with next week👍

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  4. Gayatri Bagayatkar · June 18

    Cherishing the uniqueness and celebrate the person we r at the moment .very nicely highlighted and explained 🙂❤️

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  5. InsideMySlingBag · June 4

    Wish you the best with feeling, healing and self love!

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  6. vermavkv · June 2

    very nice post

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  7. RIMI MONDAL · May 31

    That’s right first we need to love ourselves,If you don’t love yourself, you can’t love others , and your pictures quotes is awesome👍

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  8. Tiwaritanushree · May 29

    Is worst rather than find yourself… Don’t lose yourself to please someone.. I too priotrized myself.. And that’s the greate thought to be written.. 🤗.loads of love from India… Yours loving @Tanushree ❤️🌈

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  9. Tiwaritanushree · May 29

    This one is greate Anna! I personally belive that self love is the best love.. to know yourself is the greatest fantasy.. because in hard times only you yourself have to face it.. The inner voice is the greatest weapon to make changes across the world… I feel to find someone

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  10. Marie · May 29

    Well said ..and thanks

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  11. I just love how you beautifully wrote the pointers
    Comparison for me stands out. It’s what I always advocate for. It’s very dangerous to compare ourselves with other people

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  12. ionianscribe · May 27

    Inspiring message. Well done. Looking forward to your next post.

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  13. Issaismail · May 26

    Hello 🤣

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  15. Demetriusmccoy · May 25

    Hi , my name is Demetrius A MCcoy owner of Vexed Insanity Arts !
    Ok so again judging a book by its cover , I assume u are as brilliant as u are beautiful right goddess. Meaning u like art and poetry. Aswell as the facts that come along with them when u push them onto the same path . Asking the ancestors for guidance i speak to a select few of people man and woman to express #goddessdesigns , and #demigoddesigns , all apart of #angelicart ; doing so I have notice most men say no to #cosplay , and lots of woman love it. My point is would u allow me to do some #cosplayart of u. Comment on some of my sketches , #vexedinsanityarts .
    Demetriusmccoy5000@instagram.com
    Demetriusmccoy5000@gmail.com
    Vexedinsanityarts@gmail.com
    Vexedinsanityarts@instagram.com

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  16. Demetriusmccoy · May 25

    Hello……… im Demetrius Andre Mccoy Owner of Vexed Insanity Arts. I want to know if u can give it a lil thought to check out my page and sites . There based on illastrating poems and stories, creative writing and brainstormed ideas. Coment on my designs , sketches , and illustrations please . #vexedinsanityarts Vexedinsainityarts.wordpress.com

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  17. Demetriusmccoy · May 25

    U know studying with u to find out which goddess spirit is inside u… and more. Lol a lot of women don’t know that thier involking the same goddess and wonder why they have difficulties with someone looking just like them or even wearing the same dress as u for a date or party.

    ( https://youtu.be/U6NUxYibbJk )

    Is today tha day the day ?

    I want to go out and set up shop somewhere so I may sketch pictures of people . Yet, there’s but one thing holding me back . A partner , u know , someone to watch my back , covers with, and /or be my cosplay model. Rather male or female , we can have a few laughs while u sign autographs due to #cosplayart . While attracting peoples attention with posted art around us , they will notice some #animeart, #comicbookart of u.

    Coment on my illustrations from poetry , and sketches of emotion ….. #vexedinsanityarts

    Vexedinsainityarts.wordpress.com
    https://

    vexedinsainityartscomics.files.wordpress.com/2021/03/img_20210219_192124_106.jpg

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  18. DutchIl · May 22

    Thank you for sharing!!… “It is not easy to find happiness within ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere.” (Agnes Repplier )… 🙂
    Until we meet again..
    May love and laughter light your days,
    and warm your heart and home.
    May good and faithful friends be yours,
    wherever you may roam.
    May peace and plenty bless your world
    with joy that long endures.
    May all life’s passing seasons
    bring the best to you and yours!
    (Irish Saying)

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  19. eshakendhe · May 22

    Such a wonderful post!

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  20. Ena · May 22

    Love this post! Thanks for choosing to follow my blog! I really appreciate your support and look forward to reading more of your posts!

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  21. Dreamy Parakeet · May 21

    That sounds great 🥰

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  22. ahiricreates · May 21

    A beautiful and meaningful post !
    ❤️

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  23. Pavithra · May 21

    Very well said and this is such a beautiful post!! ❤️
    I totally agree with everything you said. We should never question our life. We’ll definitely go insane in order to find the right answer to an unknown question.
    The quote mentioned In the first itself said everything.

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    • anitaannabel · May 21

      I’m glad you read my post🤗❤
      Keep smiling and love yourself, that’s the key to life😁🤞🏼
      If you ever need anyone to talk to, be sure to find me❤💖

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  24. Anupama Shukla · May 21

    Wow

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    • anitaannabel · May 21

      ❤🤗

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      • Demetriusmccoy · May 29

        Yeah, just get as creative as possible, like holding a water gun or tray of cookies. Wear a cat suit or bikini. Or something that shows your features. No nudes . Please keep the respect for yourself as well as the respect for me and the art of cosplay. And most importantly…..Have fun !

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